Remko: I have played Ruy-Lopez quite a bit (and still do) with black.
My take on your question is that 7...d6 used to be almost the default people played 10-20 years ago; the so-called Anti-Marshall moves you list were considered (and I think still are) inferior for white to the standard continuation 8.c3 O-O.
I am personally not aware of any direct drawback of choosing 7...O-O and then transposing to the mainline via 8.c3 d6. The psychological trick (against those who know they might fear the Marshall attack) is that by playing 7...O-O you force them to consider if they would like to possibly play Marshall as white and those who don't might be tempted to avoid 8.c3 and therefore end up in variations that are, relatively speaking, more promising for black.
I don't play 1.e4 e5 with either colour, but here's something I've wondered about. Perhaps someone here knows.
This is the main line of the Closed Ruy Lopez. It continues either 7...0-0 8.c3 d6, or 7...d6 8.c3 0-0, reaching the same position. Each must have its pros and cons, because both ways are popular.
The obvious advantage for black of playing 7...0-0 is that he "threatens" to play the Marshall Attack, 8.c3 d5. So much so that white's 8th move alternatives (8.a4, 8.h3, 8.d4, 8.d3) are called "anti-Marshall" systems. If these systems are inferior to the mainline 8.c3 d6, and black can entice white to play them, he has scored a tiny point, even if he never intended to play the Marshall.
But what is the advantage of playing 7...d6? Are the anti-Marshall moves (a4, h3, d4, d3) not as good against 7...d6?
In other words, what is the con of 7...0-0? Why doesn't everybody just castle?