... I'd probably like to focus on the Ruy Lopez then, and the d3 system (1.e4 e5 2.Nf3 Nc6 3.Bb5 a6 4.Ba4 Nf6 5.O-O Be7 6.d3) looks quite appealing in terms of cutting down the amount of lines I need to study. However, as it seems quite subtle I'd like some advice about what the major plans for both sides are here. ...
Might want to look at The Ruy Lopez: Move by Move.
https://web.archive.org/web/20140627022042/http://www.chesscafe.com/text/hansen153.pdf
Well I'm not really new to 1.e4, as like everyone else I played 1.e4 when I was learning the basic principles of the opening. However, for a while now I've been playing all the other moves (1.d4, 1.Nf3 and 1.c4) but while I sort out aspects of my 1.d4 repertoire I'd like to reintroduce 1.e4 to my white repertoire, since eventually I'd like to be able to play all 4 major first moves. I have a few questions relating to which lines I should play.
First of all, after 1.e4 e5, for some reason I dislike the Italian so that leaves the Ruy Lopez and the Scotch. A lot of the pawn structures in the Scotch look fairly complex, especially in the Mieses Variation, so I'd probably like to focus on the Ruy Lopez then, and the d3 system (1.e4 e5 2.Nf3 Nc6 3.Bb5 a6 4.Ba4 Nf6 5.O-O Be7 6.d3) looks quite appealing in terms of cutting down the amount of lines I need to study. However, as it seems quite subtle I'd like some advice about what the major plans for both sides are here. Also about understanding the a-pawn moves - of course moving the a-pawn allows the bishop to escape to a2, but what's the difference between playing a3 and a4? Looking in a database I see a lot of GMs playing a4 but not following up with axb5. What is the idea there?
Secondly, what should I be doing about the Sicilian? I'm considering the Alapin as it leads to isolated queen's positions which are supposed to be instructive. But is the Alapin powerful enough to be used against the Sicilian? I don't want to start playing it and then discover that there's an antidote which makes the position dead so white doesn't have any straightforward plans. GMs may be able to create pressure out of nothing but I'm currently a long way off of that level.
A lot of people recommend the Open Sicilian but what lines should I then select? Against the Sveshnikov I could borrow Caruana's ideas from the WCC but I'm not sure what are suitably quiet yet instructive lines against the Najdorf and the Dragon. I don't want to play something that's harmless and relying on the fact that my opponent doesn't know the theory, but I also don't want wild opposite castling attacks which require computer-like precision.
I'm not too keen on buying opening books since I'd rather spend money on things that will bring greater improvement to my chess, like tactics and endgame books.