Loomis, nice explanation.
By the way, in the first game, White could have refuted 7...d6? with the tactic 8.Qa4+!, picking off the bishop. But the more accurate 7...Bxc3 8.bxc3 d6 9.O-O leads to the same final position so that doesn't change the verdict on 5.e4 vs 5.Nf3.
The Two Knights Tango is a rarely played defense against 1. d4 but it can be tricky to face since it is unexpected. A player I face frequently uses it and so I have worked on what are good lines against it.
First, an example that did not turn out so well for white:
The next time around white seizes on a new idea (check the move list for a few alternate moves):