There's another thing that separates the "reverse" opening, not just the tempo, but the fact that black need not play the corresponding moves. So yes, in theory, 1. f5, d5 is a Dutch defense in reverse, there is absolutely no compelling reason for black to accept this scenario. He can play any number of other moves/systems, specifically aiming at a systematic dismantling or simply at a positional advantage.
Same goes for playing Sicilian in reverse. Yes, the positions SHOULD favor white if he is in fact playing Sicilian Defense with a move in hand, but this is not necessarily the case.
Why is the Dutch defense (1.d4 f5) concidered a reliable defense , while the Bird-opening (1.f4 d5) is not ?
Why is the English opening (1.c4 e5) not superior to the Sicilian (1.e4 c5) ?
You are playing with an extra tempo,but still it is not possible to refute these defenses ?