I agree that it sounds like the Cochrane Gambit. I was like you at first: I didn't know the name of it, I'd see players play that a lot, they'd always lose, and each time I'd see it I'd think, "There's that darned thing again."
The Cochrane Gambit is supposedly sound and some people recommend it as a way of shaking up draw-oriented Petrov players since such a gambit turns the game tactical. However, as you've probably already discovered, although it typically forces Black's king up to e6 instead of allowing him to castle, Black just uses his free moves to castle by hand--...Be7, sometimes ...Kg8, sometimes ...Rhe8, etc.--and Black blocks the common bishop check Bc4+ with either ...d5 or ...Be6, and often emerges a pawn ahead in the endgame.
I've run into this a few times lately:
Opponent brings their knight out straight away and sacrifices it taking my F pawn. I take knight with King and restructure around that.
The first instance was in blitz against an 1800+ who had fallen to 1550. There was some smack talk going on in the chat. I won the first game easily, but then he completely dominated the next with that same opening. I thought he had just made the move and then turned on an engine to annoy me and bait me into multiple rematches. Still not sure, but looking at his stats, he definitely out ranked me by quite a bit so now I am wondering.
Now I see that opening in bullet, where the opponent uses the opening over and over. I won 9x in a row against it, but it made me think the person using it thought it as a legitimate opening.
Anyone know what I'm talking about?