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"What makes openings like the Stonewall, Colle, London, different than the English, Italian, and Caro-Kann?"
++ Not much. In system openings you have several transpositions and you can play it more or less against most opposition.
Stonewall: ...f5, ...Nf6, ...e6, ...d5, ...c6, ...Nbd7, ...Bd6, ...O-O, ...Ne4, ...Ndf6
Colle: d4, e3, Nf3, c3, Bd3, O-O, Re1, Nbd2, e4
London: d4, Bf4, Nf3, e3, c3, Bd3, O-O
You can also play the English, or Italian as a system.
English: c4, Nf3, g3, Bg2, O-O, Nc3, d3
Italian: e4, Nf3, Bc4, d3, O-O, c3, Nbd2
What makes openings like the Stonewall, Colle, London, different than the English, Italian, and Caro-Kann?