And I guess it's more dangerous for men not to conform, than it is for women, in general.
being called a cheater

Trysts, women never accuse others of cheating, do they?
Not quite sure why you brought gender into the discussion this time.
I guess it was my "daiquiri" remark that brought gender into it. But I don't recall bringing up gender regarding "cheating". Where is that?

Trysts, I'm not the only one who noticed. Yeah, I know, "guys" could be gender neutral, but in the context of your other comments, I read it as male. I wasn't alone in reading it that way.
But, you were alone, indeed, cave dripping, crickets chirping, alone, in thinking I made a gender exclusive remark regarding cheating
edit: I just saw your edit

Whenever I suspect that my opponent is cheating and using an engine I just switch my play to complete positional play and win anyway.
The people I've been suspicious of cheating and reported were all banned shortly after so I guess I got a good eye for cheaters ;o.
And yeah, I've been accused alot.
Sounds like you're a cheater.

Whenever I suspect that my opponent is cheating and using an engine I just switch my play to complete positional play and win anyway.
The people I've been suspicious of cheating and reported were all banned shortly after so I guess I got a good eye for cheaters ;o.
And yeah, I've been accused alot.
I read this more often than I should on chess.com
I have a chess engine. I will fly you here so I can watch you play bullet again it. You'll get 10 games and rook odds. Not factory settings though e.g. contempt value. If you manage to win or draw even one out of 10 games, I will give you $50,000. If you lose all 10 games (which you will) you have to compensate me for the air fare.

If you input the moves "by hand" so to speak, no, not really as long as your opponent keeps the pace up.
People have programs to input the moves automatically though. You can get <1sec move rates as well... not that I know how to do this.

Whenever I suspect that my opponent is cheating and using an engine I just switch my play to complete positional play and win anyway.
The people I've been suspicious of cheating and reported were all banned shortly after so I guess I got a good eye for cheaters ;o.
And yeah, I've been accused alot.
Sounds like you're a cheater.
Hm, you made a strong case for me being a cheater. But I have a counter argument which will turn everything around;
Sounds like YOU'RE a cheater.
I was being sarcastic, because you said when you suspect engine use, you switch to positional play and beat them anyway.

Whenever I suspect that my opponent is cheating and using an engine I just switch my play to complete positional play and win anyway.
The people I've been suspicious of cheating and reported were all banned shortly after so I guess I got a good eye for cheaters ;o.
And yeah, I've been accused alot.
Sounds like you're a cheater.
Hm, you made a strong case for me being a cheater. But I have a counter argument which will turn everything around;
Sounds like YOU'RE a cheater.
I was being sarcastic, because you said when you suspect engine use, you switch to positional play and beat them anyway.
Do you think I seriously accused you of cheating? ;v
No, I thought you misunderstood that I was joking when I called you a cheater.

Whenever I suspect that my opponent is cheating and using an engine I just switch my play to complete positional play and win anyway.
The people I've been suspicious of cheating and reported were all banned shortly after so I guess I got a good eye for cheaters ;o.
And yeah, I've been accused alot.
I read this more often than I should on chess.com
I have a chess engine. I will fly you here so I can watch you play bullet again it. You'll get 10 games and rook odds. Not factory settings though e.g. contempt value. If you manage to win or draw even one out of 10 games, I will give you $50,000. If you lose all 10 games (which you will) you have to compensate me for the air fare.
Is it possible though to use this chess engine of yours or any other and still have your move entered back into the Blitz game within say 2 seconds?
What is the fastest time in seconds that one could use such an engine and have the moves entered into the Blitz game versus an opponent?
One draw for $50,000 and a free trip to Sweden. I'm a fish and I might even be able to pull that off my ego leads me to beleieve!

that is the whole topic in a nut shell. why does every one need all these things to help them? why cant 2 people just sit down and play the game? all were talking about is ways to cheet ways to get help. it might just be me but im never using anything just the brain, but thats why my score is probably low i guess. i dont have much more to say... but it just chess,just a game its not like your winning money from it by cheeting you get nothing but a fake high score and a waste of your time.
Chess to me is a game of ego. I can't understand though why anyone would cheat, except for maybe some immature insecure individuals who somehow get satisfaction out of cheating people of the joy of their efforts.
I guess some peoples egos are so insecure they get some twisted sense of self esteem by projecting their self worth through their fake invalid ratings!

u said it perfect. 2 men sit down and play a game of wits, not sit down with there cheet books and i-phones and there friends helping them. and play. i have played most of my chess person to person and there were few losses i come on here and i feel like im playing the computer almost every (standard game) i play. i mean i cant make 1 mistake at all or its over. now if your score is 900 i shouldnt have to play u like ur a 1800 player. but thats why i moved over to basically just playing bullet games on here to kill time.
I've played some very honorable and good players here and have gotten much joy from the games and friendships I have made. I have had those games against very low rated players like you've stated and am in one now. I figure those games can only make me better.

u said it perfect. 2 men sit down and play a game of wits, not sit down with there cheet books and i-phones and there friends helping them. and play. i have played most of my chess person to person and there were few losses i come on here and i feel like im playing the computer almost every (standard game) i play. i mean i cant make 1 mistake at all or its over. now if your score is 900 i shouldnt have to play u like ur a 1800 player. but thats why i moved over to basically just playing bullet games on here to kill time.
If you check details like: 'number of games played, av op etc' might give you a better idea. Perhaps you just played some up and comming guys. I can't say that I've ever felt that someone cheated against me here. No one plays with Fritz liek strengh!
Peer pressure is a powerful force and its a rare individual that never succumbs to it, male or female.