i think they just like to see who is dumb enough to get all frustrated by an avatar.
Boys pretending to be girls

I'm sure if Kay wanted to say something else then she would, or is this an 'outing' issue exnos?

I don't mean they should be persecuted, discriminated, or punished by some laws but in society the parent of these kids are doing a disservice if they tell their son or daughter that they can "decide" whether they are a boy or a girl.
People who pretend to be male or female when they are the opposite sex are literally tricking other people in the society. Unless they somehow advertise that they are actually transsexual (or transgender if you prefer that term) it is unfair and wrong to pretend and lie to others that they are something that does not actually correspond to their biology.
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i think these "boys" cant get a "girl" in real life so they pretend to be "girls" here to get a girl to talk to them ....or maybe these "boys" pretending to be girls are actually perverts ...