CHESScom only accepts messages from friends

And I thought we were friends

I got this warning along with an unsolicited message from chess.com.   It was totally uncalled for.  After all these years and accounts ...

This is like receiving talak 3 times via sms like what this guy is singing

how heartless

i will accept your messages, dear bun

*Sniff* thanks hammy

should i add but thats because no one ever messages me, of leave that unsaid...oh, ok..unsaid

yes  that how it works on here 

you need to be friends with someone to be able too

message them

But this is chess.com we're talking about here.  Isn't chess.com on friendly terms with all it's members? Especially naive cute furry creatures?

Being last on a list is still better than not being on a list

who are you calling naive? I can be street savvy..if someone tells me how.

We probably need a new forum topic to figure that one out.

No you don't. However, some people have it set so that only friends can send them messages.

i didnt know that

Looks like we're both victims of a cruel world.  I need yomama.  You need yomama. We need yomama.

I wonder if the dancing guy needs yomama

There is a setting.

Yomama is more like a sitting or even a lie down.

Not true.  I got a message today from someone who i'm not friends with on here.

In all of our games, have you not learnt anything? 

ok i got it wrong

you can message people 

All I want to know is why chess.com hates me *sniff*