Ok so when you go on live chess, you click on the friend tab (on youre right) And then you click on his name and then you click chalenge.
how to play live blitz chess with a friend

thanks champ, now, if there is no one on my friend's list does that just mean that they're not online?

My friends aren't listed there as options, even when I search for them. Even though they show as 'online now' on the Friends page.
>> My friends aren't listed there as options, even when I search for them. Even though they show as 'online now' on the Friends page. <<
True story

what is live bullet chess?
https://support.chess.com/customer/en/portal/articles/1444851-why-are-there-three-different-ratings-in-live-chess-
hey guys, i've just joined the website and i'm trying to start a 10 min live game with a friend and all i can do is play a standard 1-3day per turn game which is very slow, any help please