And...that's my perspective for my groups. You have your perspective for yours. Take it or leave it.
Besides Glorax, I'm not fighting any battle on any hill. I'm not in a race with anyone. But those who joined are personally welcomed in and are pointed to those House Rules on first contact. They can leave if they feel they're too stringent. If I was to join another's group and wanted to stay there, I would respect their rules too. It's not a hard thing for me to operate within set boundaries. Maybe it is for you.
~DW
You will be always fighting to keep a certain number of people, because you will be losing members that you invited and they will always be a risk of leaving.
Never said you were. Good luck though rising up in the ranks with that thinking.
Don't be shy, speak up
Lol!