warnings

one again, I am getting warnings about aborting or cancelling games, I have done neither, so how do I stop these warnings?

What is happening in your games just before the games end and you see the warning? Are you waiting a while to move? Have you had several disconnections?

Sirsstuff if you are white and you do not move for ~20 seconds you are abusing the system. Aborting games also does this.

Yes, I do see several disconnection attempts. I don't abort any games and I'm not playing "speed" chess so I didn't know I only have 20 seconds to move. But if the reference is to the very first move, I will be sure to make it within 20 seconds. Thanks, guys...

This can be done by several internet problems or disconnection. This happens for me before, I move 1.e4 and wait for a long a time; see the "Connection Interrupted" and when I get back to live chess; it says I leave or abort the game. 

Then, this is basically a network glitch leaving the players no way to avoid or correct this thing?

A staff member attempted to aid you, in post #2. Did you avail yourself of that opportunity? or did it go nowhere?