Early Queen Attacks

Hello

im new to this website and i noticed alot of queen attacks and im not a bad player i know how to play but i lost to them i want to improve i won't sit and say i lost one game it's okay

the queen attacks focus on b g and e pawns and the engine and all the videos say that i should let them capture the pawn and focus on developing my pieces which isn't a straight way to win

any blunder by me or small mistake will help my opponent catch up and i will lose the endgame because of that pawn

like the last match i played it was like this
1-e6 2-e4 3-Nc3 4-d4 (if i don't do it i will get insulted and people will tell me that i lost because of the center) 5-Qh5 and here i can't play f3 and if i play Nc6 he will pin my knight and take it in the next turn then win a pawn


i know i know piece development matters more and the engine says black is winning but there is no way for me to know the best moves to win and if i make the smallest mistake i will lose

my opponent moves are simple castle get the queen out ....


can somebody please help me i need help to play against this kind of attack

1-e3 2-e5 3-Nc3 4-d5 5-Qh5 6-Nf6 7-bg4 8-Nf3 9-Bxf6+. 10-gxf6 11-Qe5+ ( and i lost a pawn )

And i lost that game too because of that pawn whats funny the engine said i was winning

The general rule is if the queen can successfully do an attack, its overwhelming. The queen is the mightiest piece and if it is allowed to rampage, it will do so most furiously.

On the other hand whenever the queen is under attack, it HAS to move. If you get too deep into enemy territory, the queen may be lost. Thats always the danger when attacking with the queen.

Therefore in many situations the queen stays back, in safety, and gives support from the distance.

That doesnt make any sense.

Please point to the actual game.

P.s.: Seems to be this one:

https://www.chess.com/game/live/123289649452?username=eneushasbeentaken&move=1

So far you played the Stockfish moves. Stockfish gives basically equality here.

The first thing that I thought of for White was "The Centre Game" (1. e4 e5 2. d4 ed 3. Qxd4 ...). It is generally viewed as allowing Black to reach equality too easily, so one doesn't see it very often at high levels. It has appeared, though (I think there's a game where Nepo tried it against Magnus, and it didn't go well, but then Magnus winning doesn't mean an opening is trash, he's just a bit good at the game ).
I've only played it against people twice, once as White (to surprise a buddy of mine when we used to have a weekly OTB match, no clocks, at the pub) and once as Black when I toyed with playing people online here (I really just play bots online as it suits me).
Anyway, here are those two games if you want to have a look.

and as Black:

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i want somebody high rated to answer me not 800 and 1200 elos

Oh, the poor wee lamb. Here's a tissue for the boo boo.

e4 and e3 aren't the same thing and i want a way to punish it , cuz the main line makes me lose a pawn and the end game , how can i win despite being down a pawn if im ahead in development

Stockfish is apparently 1200 elo now lolz

Are u a moron ? Do you have a brain ?

@MariasWhiteKnight what the hell are you talking about do you know how to win at chess ? your 1200elo , f off