Fair Game Play



Someones need many time to think and play. it's not to trouble the opponent in my case !
I loose at time even games of 30'
very recent exemple. Of course I must win this game after 20/30 more moves but no more time !!!
Échecs : Krushvar contre Bruno5979 - 11221423967 - Chess.com
Edit : Sometimes I think to my opponent. "the poor, time must be long for him, he think that I do that volontary", but I need sometimes 5 minutes even more for on move because complicated position for me.

My advice is not to play a shorter time control if you want to improve. Playing longer time controls is great for improvement, if that is your goal.
You need to learn to use your time better. In this case it is as if your opponent had 30 minutes on the clock and you gave him a handicap and gave yourself 10 minutes on the clock. If the opponents are equal, the one with 30 minutes on the clock has a huge edge.
It is a matter of practice and discipline. First you need to recognize that you have a problem with time management. It seems to me you are starting to do this, as you've posted on the forum about it.
Second, before playing a game, tell yourself that you will take your time on your moves, that you will not move a piece before making sure that your move is ok. It seems ridiculous but it does work at least to some extent.
The last part is practice. As you start implementing this, you will gradually become better at it.
