Hi everyone
I've been playing chess on and off for a couple years now, and to tell you the truth, I'm pretty bad at it. I've watched countless tutorials, practiced many moves and defences, learnt basic chess fundamentals, tried my very hardest to concentrate and observe the board and to not fall into traps and easy losses. However, these past months playing chess, for me, has been exceptionally hard and straining, and I keep making the same mistakes, over and over again. Chess just confuses me, and I understand losing is ultimately part of getting naturally better at chess, but I seem to be stuck in a constant loop of putting lots of mental strain into a chess game, and then failing easily to an attack that I didn't notice. I feel like this is the main problem. I think I've got the other player beat, only for them to launch a (usually) very effective counter that I was not prepared for. Basically, I feel like everyone else is 10 steps ahead while I'm playing maybe 1 or 2, but trying to think ahead really confuses me.
I'm willing to put the time in and get better as a player, so any tips to helping me break this cycle? Any sort of response would really help out.
You are playing too fast to think. Play a slower time control and give yourself time to play properly. Your studies do you little good if you only have a few seconds to flash something out without time to apply these concepts.
are you playing blitz bullet rapid? or daily games? I am by no means a good chess player but found that playing daily games and playing the games out over the board helped my board vision a lot.