Hello @Sky_Sumisu This is actually a really common problem when starting out and just because your opponents can move faster, this doesn't mean they shouldn't be taking more time too.
Your observation is correct that 10 min chess is the most popular time control on chess.com, but if you want to improve at chess long-term, it is usually recommended to play longer time controls to give yourself enough thinking time so you don't feel rushed. Different people naturally move at different paces. If someone feels okay at 10 min time control, then maybe 15/10 is a little more comfortable to give them more thinking time. Similarly, I have a chess.com friend of mine who used to mainly play 30 min chess and they claim one of the best things they've ever done for their chess was switch to playing 60 min time control games instead. That is 60 min per side though and most players don't have 2 hours of free time to spend on a single game. What you have to do is find what time control(s) give a good balance for you.
Playing faster and more accurately under those speeds becomes a lot easier with pattern recognition, practice and experience.
If you want to improve at chess overall, improving at longer time controls first and then slowly playing with less and less time as you gain experience is preferred. If you see the top chess players in the world at long time controls, you'll notice that those players are also the best in the world at speed chess too. However, people only good at speed chess and not longer games usually just become chess hustlers in the park or play chess online for fun. There is no right or wrong if they enjoy it, but if you want long-term improvement, you usually want quality over quantity and not feeling rushed in your games, so you have time to consider your options, think before you move, scan for blunder checks before you move and so on.
Best of luck on your chess journey and feel free to message me if you have any questions
I'm fairly new to chess, but a problem I'm facing is that a very large number of my losses on 10-minute matches are because of me running out of time. I tried to mitigate this by playing 15|10, where it only happens very rarely (Yet I still take at least double the time of my opponent), but I still feel I should learn how to play 10-mins, since it appears to be one of the most played modes.
Just to name a few examples: In my last 10-minute win I had 53 seconds left, while my adversary had 6 minutes, and in my last loss, where I lost on time, my adversary still had 3:47.
How can I improve on that?