guy trapped me so I couldn’t escape..

Mr. Tumpai, your view of the situation I respect because we all have the right to have an opinon in the cyberspace which we want to keep free, but I will never agree with you that there is nothing wrong and that should be added to the reportoire ... It is about where is the fair play and where are the values that you hold, of course if you cannot see that, the exchange of ideas on this topic is finished with you.

its online chess, if you flagged its because you took too much time to play, next time play faster and it wont be an issue

nothing cause it’s part of chess

I looked at your recent games, and one game against a player known as Alsaqr3 matches your description.... but you had 3:35 left on your clock at move 28 and took 20 seconds per move and 80 seconds on the penultimate move.
If this is the game, then you lost on time because you squandered it. When my clock is under 90 seconds, I don’t spend more than three seconds per move. Just the game.
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