I only had casual OTB experience with friends and family, so I came onto this site seeking to improve. I didn’t consider myself a bad player, but as soon as I joined, I was immediately humbled. Constantly. I thought playing hundreds of games here would help me improve, but instead I just plummeted to the 400 elo range. I knew something wasn’t working, so I decided to take a break from the chess board and watch in-depth instructional videos instead. I started watching John Bartholomew specifically; in his Climbing The Rating Ladder videos, he took his time to explain the thought processes behind his moves in a clear and simple way… and for the first time, something finally “clicked” in my mind. When I implemented his style of thinking into the way I played, I went from the 400 range to 600. Over a couple months, I achieved 800. And finally, I broke 1000.
Playing hundreds of crappy games didn’t help me: I just became solidified in my bad habits. What a lot of players end up realizing is that real improvement happens off the chess board. Watch instructional videos, and observe the habits of people who are better than you. It’s a quality over quantity situation: you will be way better off playing a few 30-minute games a day and analyzing your mistakes instead of playing dozens of blitz games a day for example. Btw, I learned how to play chess late and all my improvement was done in adulthood, so if I can do it, you certainly can do it as well :) keep in mind that most chess players don’t reach their peak rating until age 35+, so imo you still have plenty of time to reach your goals. Wishing you the best of luck!
I used to play OTB a lot with friends and family. Was nowhere near IM or GM but I still expected to do a lot better than I've been since starting on this site. I joined because I wanted to actually play with people regularly and have fun but it's kind of hard to have fun when you take regular losses to even lower ranked players.
I did also join this site hoping to improve so I was definitely expecting some pushback, but not on the level I'm getting. I wanted to come on here, learn, and one day maybe be like my personal favorite Mikhail Tal. But I'm pretty sure Tal didn't get to where he was regularly losing to 200-600 elo players who use the wayward queen like it's a classical opening.
Based on Gotham's videos and these forums, it seems that an ELO of under 700-1000 is considered beginning level, and that kinda burns when I can't even break 500. At 27, I've been playing chess for 13 years now and I'd like to think I'm more than just a "Beginner" but I guess this site is proving me otherwise and I kind of feel stupid at this point. Like was I really that bad of a player just playing with other people who were bad players?