I wish players would chat. They may be frightened.
Although it is not a general rule, some of the most extremely introverted people I have ever met were chess players. When we come to the site we just want to play the game - we didn't sign up for that conversation stuff. Besides, chatting costs you time on the clock and takes your concentration off the game. That means you lose rating points unnecessarily, and that is not what we want, is it?
I wish players would chat. They may be frightened.