This is a rough topic. If you are a new player definitely play with YOUR comfortable time control and progress from there. Rapid games are the most popular on the site and I'd start with that time control.
If you're more experienced, still play comfortably. Personally I prefer 5|5 blitz for a good game.
I hope this helps.
-GChess325
I'm only playing 10 min games, when I started it was the default option. But on the forum, I realized that most players play bullet or blitz. am I having the worst experience playing 10 minute games? do the best players do bullet or blitz? What do you guys think?