I would go for a win.
HELP ME !!!

join the question..
i usealy ether tack the d pown and then tray to abuse the Q if it take my pown back, or play a defensiv f6 with the pown..

he's probably trying to get you to into the danish gambit. if you take, he'll offer up his c pawn, and a b pawn. if you accept everything, he'll have developed his bishops while there's literally nothing on your side. this gambit is pretty easy to deal with, google that shit.
I reccommend Yasser Seirwan's book on openings. He will give you some great alternatives to the traditional response to e4. You will have new alternatives both as white or black.

I think also taking the pawn would be best. If he/she would take with the queen then you could still develop while forcing the queen back.
what should i do next? i play as black...