Just get any strong engine and set it to show you its top 3 choices. That's what I do.
Then I use my brain to decide which of those 3 makes sense. And that's the move I explore.
If none of the 3 make sense, then I play the move I like, and see how far off it is. Sometimes the engine ends up liking my move best! (Of course I'm not giving it much time to think in these cases.)
And of course if the #1 move is a huge favorite (as in there's a tactic or a mate) I will have to look at that line whether the first move makes sense to me or not.
We know which chess engines are 3000+ elo and would suggest the BEST moves. I want a chess engine that would analyze my games and suggest strong moves but not necessary the best which I cannot understand anyway. Unless it's a forced mate in 4 or 5 or a 3, 5 move combination that gains material advantage. Any suggestion?