Believe it or not, the first step to becoming a great chess player is to develop a powerful understanding of chess psychology and philosophy. Reading books about chess and practicing openings is of value as well.
However, if you lack a basic understanding of chess and what it takes to be a winner then you will never be great. Take the time to sit down and listen to the words of great chess masters and develop an understanding of how they think or how they evaluate their opponents during matches.
To me, I am a great chess player because I have that killer instinct necessary to just go out there and destroy an opponent with no mercy. At the end of the match, I will type "gg" as a virtual handshake because I do not hate my opponent. In fact, I appreciate the time that he or she has taken to compete against me. There will be countless idiots as well, but you can deal with accordingly.
Dear Skilled Chess Players of Chess.com
As a service to the young chess enthusiasts and spirited beginners taking up the game of chess, we should try to nurture their development with our words of wisdom.
Those who lack any potential or who view themselves as worthless players with no hope of improvement should just go and chat on some other topic because this is only for serious chess players with potential.
Perhaps we could assist developing chess warriors by providing them with words of wisdom that can guide their development.
Here is my first piece of advice to developing chess warriors:
RULE NUMBER 1: BE PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE
Not unsportsmanlike but passive aggressive in your attack. Being so does not mean that you should post insults or promote 5 Queens against a helpless opponent. Absolutely not. That is stupidity and I neither promote nor condone stupidity.