:( I was playing on Facebook and let my guard down against a person with a lower rating (and who was making bad plays) and he checkmated me after some blunders on my part.
Lesson: always play the optimal move!!!
The other person's rating shouldn't matter. You just shouldn't play sub-optimal moves against someone you think may be weak and unable to exploit you. And, similarly, we shouldn't believe that a player with a higher rating isn't exploitable, nor let intimidation psych us out of our game!
Sorry. I'll use "vs." or "play" from now on.