Why would somebody accuse, like me, cheating? I can no longer tolerate anyone accusing me or any other player of cheating. Why is it hard for a losing player to accept defeat? Where was the essence of sportsmanship anyway? Is it my fault if my opponent makes a blunder and I seize the initiative of controlling the game's tempo and capitalizing it for a win? I have never cheated in chess ever since I played this game, way back when I was still in elementary all the way to college and after school years. I adhere to the basic principle of fair play, win or lose, be a gentleman or a sportsman to accept any defeat in a game. In my capacity, I don't have either tools or any engine to be accused of. It's been unfair to be accused of cheating even if you are an honest player. It saddens my mind and heart how some players can't accept defeat and resort to accusing someone of a cheater. A disgraceful act I seldom encounter, yet a very dishonorable method of a loser.
Fair play policy Rules and ways to get better at chess
Sadly that is the way the game of chess and world in general has gone. Many people can't accept losing or that someone is better then them so accuse them of cheating. It doesn't help when a former world champion like Kramnik indulges in such behaviour. Mute chat is the best option.
1. Do not get help from parents or friends or anyone while playing a game of chess.
My babysitter is not just anyone. So, can I use them? 
Whenever I play chess against 1400 elo or something, my dad literally just teleports to me and helps me. But I beated the magni bot so I really don't need help.
Your baby sitter is someone so dont take help from her. On top of that she probably doesn't even know how to play chess
Why would somebody accuse, like me, cheating? I can no longer tolerate anyone accusing me or any other player of cheating. Why is it hard for a losing player to accept defeat? Where was the essence of sportsmanship anyway? Is it my fault if my opponent makes a blunder and I seize the initiative of controlling the game's tempo and capitalizing it for a win? I have never cheated in chess ever since I played this game, way back when I was still in elementary all the way to college and after school years. I adhere to the basic principle of fair play, win or lose, be a gentleman or a sportsman to accept any defeat in a game. In my capacity, I don't have either tools or any engine to be accused of. It's been unfair to be accused of cheating even if you are an honest player. It saddens my mind and heart how some players can't accept defeat and resort to accusing someone of a cheater. A disgraceful act I seldom encounter, yet a very dishonorable method of a loser.
I understand since my friend had dealt with this too. I agree with him or her because my friend was false reported of breaking the fair play policy
I also agree with Greyflitworth I never experienced it but I know it happens a lot
Here are some of the rules of chess.com
Fair Play Policy
1. Do not get help from parents or friends or anyone while playing a game of chess.
2. Do not use programs to cheat in chess.com. Chess.com can detect you and bann you for days or even weeks.
3. Do not use someone to play on your account.
4. Do not manipulate ratings, matches or game outcomes
5. If you suspect your opponent cheating it is not an excuse to do the same. If he is cheating then report him. The report button is a circle with a exclamation mark on it.
6. Do not cheat in any way
7. Do not do sandbagging (losing games on purpose) that can also get you banned.
https://www.chess.com/legal/fair-play
So yeah coming to the point of how to get better at chess. I have a Eleven move chess trap.
You are white. You move Pawn to e4. They move pawn to e5. You move G knight to f3. They move b knight to c6. Then You move d pawn to d4. They capture with their d pawn. Then move knight to f knight to g5 They move pawn to h6. You move knight to f7. They capture with king. Then you put light squared bishop to c4. Black moves King to e8. Then queen to h5 check. King moves to e7. Then queen to f7. Black moves king to d6. You move e pawn to e5 when knight takes you moves queen to d5. Then opponent king moves to e7. Then take the knight with the queen. And its checkmate. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/4d6aVXE7RLM
Watch this to see the video of it. Anyways bye for now .PEACE!!!