Well done. A quick look shows no gross tactical errors, which shows what you can do when you put your mind to it. To me it looks like you lost due to
1) poor strategical decision making - 24.Qf3. You generally don't want to trade pieces when your opponent is under pressure and has a lack of manuevering space as he did in that situation due to the octopus on c6.
and 2) poor handling of the endgame. 36.Nh7 is particularly odd. Is the knight deserting? But not to worry, you can improve your endgame technique later
Edit: Hang on, I just found one. 27.g3 hanging your rook
I put a seek out for a 20 10 game, in an effort to play slower and with greater care, but no one wanted to play that slow.
So, I played one last 15 10 game and gave it my very best, taking the game all the way down to one minute left on my clock, thinking on each and every move. It's real late for me, 1:23 A.M., so I'm real tired, but I still think I played to the best of my abilities, and just got beat by a better player.
Below is the "safest chess" game that I could muster tonight. I had a real hard time holding my position together in the middlegame and lost a pawn or two as a consequence, pretty sure. I did try real hard. Thanks for the encouragement. Maybe I can find some 20 or 30 minute games tomorrow to practice this new mental discipline thing, as I will be home all day. Good night.
Last, my opponent was far, far away, in Greece. Internet chess is a very cool thing, in that regard. It's a global experience. BTW - I also played someone from Sri Lanka. Where is that?