First thing you have to accept is that you'll have to be in this for the long haul.
There's no quick shortcuts to improving, no "brilliancy" you can perform to make you great. At least I haven't read of anyone that has done that. In fact I've read a post on these forums that claimed Fischer spent some 7 years in an OCD craze over Chess (from when he picked up the first set at a candy store) and had only improved to about 1720. Or something like that.
Hey there. I've got some general chess questions for everyone. As some background, I started playing chess two years ago. I read a book or two and am rated at about ~1200 on this site.
My first question is about psychology. I've always had the problem of being over-competitive in sports and games. When I play chess, I lose many more games than I win, and each loss gets me incredibly frustrated. It hurts to try as hard as you can at something and to lose, almost every time. Any game I win is because my opponent has blundered and I've managed to "win a won game" (although, many times, I still can't win those). So, my first question is, how do you guys handle this? It's getting to the point where the "cons" of the frustration outweigh the "pros" of enjoying the game. Is it time for me to quit chess?
My second question is about improving ones chess game from beginner level (knowing how the pieces move, basic strategy) to intermediate (coming up with competant plans, recognizing weaknesses and exploiting them, etc). I've read books, watched videos on this site, spent significant time with tactics trainer (~1500 rating), and played many games on Live chess, but I've seen *very* little improvement in the past two years. Some people say, "play more!", but that hasn't proven helpful. Some people say, "study more!", but the approaches I mentioned above to study haven't sunk in at all. I know what I'm theoretically trying for, but I can't seem to apply that knowledge to any actual games. How do you study and actually *apply* what you've learned? I like to avoid memorizing if possible, but it's clearly not... what specifically do I memorize?
**EDIT: I also meant to ask, what is the best time control to develop skills? Clearly 1minute is too short, and if I don't set a timer, each game takes several hours.**
I've never had a personal chess coach because I usually can't afford them.
What do I do?!
Thanks in advance for your advice.