OTB, it's a lot harder. At the higher level, it's basically impossible. However, those... err.. determined ones have some tricks up their sleeve. Some smuggle a phone into their pocket, then ask to go to the bathroom. In the bathroom, they'll pull up the analysis board and... well... you know what happens next.
Also, I really hope you don't actually want to learn to cheat in irl chess to win a bet
How do you cheat in chess irl? Is this one of the few handful games in the world where nobody can cheat? like tell the guy to turn around your playing against and switch peices or sum. asking so i can defeat my friend and win 100£