How to deal with rude players?

When I had the habit to go to my chess club every day (now I don't go because the players are all kids shouting all the time and trowing pieces), there was a guy, one the very few who had about my same age (he is 16), who during a game, started to sing, he continuously get up from the chair and then returned after a while, he blundered on purpose and then said "oh no, I blundered!" to kid me. He was very annoying, and obviously he didn't like chess but came to the club only to fool. I can expect this from a 10 years old. but now from a 16 years old!

simple teach them about ettiquite, if they refuse to listen, well just sit through it, most smaller chess clubs these days are for relaxation as opposed to improvement.

chess is supposed to be fun at club evening and people is allowed to joke and even sing. - it isn't detention. it is a sparetime hobby.

I think if someone is seriously way past annoying. I think the leader of the club should have a one to one word with that someone and ask him if he wants to play chess or something else.

still club evenings are supposed to be fun and a lot is allowed.

I was member in a club all evening some of the players said funny things during the game. and that may not be everyones taste, but why disallow him that 80% of the club was fine with it. I guess. I think it was great.

What? Chess for me is a serious game, and I can't stand annoying and stupid "players". I need to concentrate to play well and learn.

no disrespect but sometimes you also need to ligthen up, chess can also be fun as a casual game. if it is club evening you will not find many serious games.

I wouldn't last in a club where I needed to be just as quiet as if it was tournament all time.

if it is tournamens on the other hand everyone is very serious

again some things need to just be light and not very serious. I actually need music to play. (I can turn on a mental playlist for OTB games and when my opponent gets annoyed that I have a bass voice)

Have you ever been to a club with kids who shout all the time?  It's not an exaggeration.  Shouting, playing bullet chess and throwing pieces.  I wouldn't go back.

My advice to the OP is to find a club where adults play or just play online.

Actually I've played before with an MP3 player with earbuds, and then wear earmuffs over the earbuds.  Blocks out nearly all noise.  That way you could just ignore your opponent.

IN A OTB YOU CAN TELL A REFEREE AND THEY MIGHT HAVE TO FORFEIT. I KNOW EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. THEY WOULD AJUST THERE PIECES OUT OF THERE SQUARES. IT MAKES ME THINK WHY THEY EVEN PLAY CHESS.

QUIT SHOUTING....

on a more serious note, the places with screaming children are not proper chess clubs, more like chess themed day cares, at least thats what you are describing to me. now Wafflemaster, big question, are you allowed to do that in a tournoment

sorry i pressed caps lock

of course i have seen so many masters and players do it.

it was light humor, just didn't know if you knew ;)

Have fun with it, why the hell would anyone go out of their way to go out to a club, just to be silent and boring? If you dont like that kinda thing, stay in your room, turn your phone off and chat settings on here whilst sat in silence. That should satisfy your craving for dullness.....

Chess clubs should promote study, and infact your opponent who mentions that he blundered, trust him and find out why it was a blunder, and then help him to improve for next time, you will only get better by playing better players, and improving the quality of the players around you will do the same thing, my Lunch period essentially became a chess club involving maybe 10 people in one of the chem labs, and the supervisor (who joined in mainly because he provided the sets) would joke that when I was giving advice mid game to my opponent, that my opponent should listen

But my opponent blundered on purpose, since I was a beginner at the time, he blundered a piece on purpose to kid me.

Plus during an OTB tournament (the only tournament I played since I learned to play), I was playing an old man, he said that I touched a piece even if I didn't (he did this with every opponent howewer), and every time his opponent said "j'adoube" and adjust a piece, he said "you young players have a bad habit, you are always adjusting pieces"

well now, that could be him doing the thing I would do, but in a more patronizing manner, I merely played the move I thought best and simply gave them the tools to find an equally good move, but never told them outright anything wrong with my move. now the advice is still the same find out why it is a blunder and execute a decent responce, and take something from it, if only just the pattern that formed around it.

In my club there are also 4-5 years old, parents bring them to the chess club to get rid of them, then they don't want to play chess (obviously, how can a 4 years old understand chess and that it is a game that require concentration?) and start to shout, throw pieces, fight each other and broke chess clocks.

Put on earmuffs to protect your ears against a horde of screaming children?  There's no need.