If you don’t accept at least one rematch after you win, then you lose.


In other words, instead of accepting that you lost a game you want to pretend you're somehow the winner.
Everyone loses. Sometimes the person we lose to isn't as good as we are, but we lose anyway. Instead of insisting on a rematch just accept it and move on.
you have a point, you got lucky and now youre scared to play again, then agian you only get a rematch if you play to the bitter end and dont resign or play slowly

What if you win thirty times, then I win once and don't rematch after that? I still lose according to your policy? Sounds reasonable.
People crying about not accepting defeat. You fit right in with the world in 2020. I'll send you a trophy
--- Right on target lol.
I don't rematch in order to play a variety of players. I'm not scared to play you, I just find that playing different people allows me to learn faster and better.

Some people don't have time, others (like me) wanna face somebody new every time they play, others simply just don't wanna play again, and many more reasons.

Explain please.
I genuily wanna hear it from you POV

As far as I’ve played online, most people accept a rematch when they win and don’t accept a rematch when the lose. They are only looking to increase ELO instead of looking to improve their game. That is why online ELO is such a bubble.
you have a point, you got lucky and now youre scared to play again, then agian you only get a rematch if you play to the bitter end and dont resign or play slowly
Chess is not won by being lucky, it is won through skill. The only luck involved in chess is the opponent you get paired with.

As far as I’ve played online, most people accept a rematch when they win and don’t accept a rematch when the lose. They are only looking to increase ELO instead of looking to improve their game. That is why online ELO is such a bubble.
I really don't see how declining rematches would have much of an impact on rating. You would still get paired with a similarly rated player.

As far as I’ve played online, most people accept a rematch when they win and don’t accept a rematch when the lose. They are only looking to increase ELO instead of looking to improve their game. That is why online ELO is such a bubble.
I really don't see how declining rematches would have much of an impact on rating. You would still get paired with a similarly rated player.
They probably have the mindset, "I beat them last time, I can beat them this time and get more points". That's exaggerated, but you get the point
you have a point, you got lucky and now youre scared to play again, then agian you only get a rematch if you play to the bitter end and dont resign or play slowly
Chess is not won by being lucky, it is won through skill. The only luck involved in chess is the opponent you get paired with.