Opening theory is just such a seductive area of study for beginners. It seems that if you could just find the right openings, chess would almost solve itself. Alas, such is not the case. The chance that your opponents will follow theory at your level is very low. No, what you need to do is to follow the standard opening guidelines so you can get into a playable middlegame. Right now it's all aboutincreasing your board vision so you stop dropping pieces and start recognizing the opportunities your opponent gives you. Most feel that the study of tactics is key to that.
Lots of great courses on the Chess Mentor. I'd start there. We live in an age of information overload. It's all out there; basically everything you need to become a class A player or even an expert, even without coaching. As you've found, it's all just a little too much and it can become discouraging. You need to study, you need to play, and you need to review your games. Some folks find that correspondence chess (what Erik calls online) is real helpful because the time pressure is eliminated and you can use books, videos, and databases to reach a playable middlegame. You don't get killed right out of the opening. Of course you still have to come up with and execute a good plan; no one said chess was easy.
You might want to check out the study plans here (Learn in the green ribbon bar). I'd recommend some beginner tactics courses on the ChessMentor and just hang in there. You'll get better with time.
Hey all, I'm a new chess player and in an attempt to strengthen my game these last few weeks I've been exploring resources (Books, YouTube, Chess.com etc.) and the problem i'm having is I don't even know how to learn! It seems there is just so much information, and most of it is dependant upon my opponents order of moves. for instance one book I'm reading (How To Think Ahead In Chess) advises to always play the stonewall attack as white and the dragon against E4, however it seems only logical that I can't just blindly follow a preconceived pattern without regard for my opponents moves. And every book I read simply says "white does this, black does this, so white does this etc. and surley I'm not expected to remember every exact scenerio in them. I feel like there is some basic concept right in front of my face that i just can't grasp. Has anyone else been where I am? Any help would be much appriciated!