Markie, you literally are using a computer to your advantage to more quickly see if a move has the potential result and shows you all the potential counters inside of 20 seconds. Is it cheating? No, not in my opinion. Chess.com has made this engine available to everyone, and apparently the norm. Does give you an advantage? If it didn't, you wouldn't use it. In my opinion, it isn't cheating because it's commonly used and everyone has access to it. However, Chess is a game of thought and time, and when something gives you the ability to make calculations without having to sacrifice the time it would take you to come to that conclusion and give you the added resource of allowing you to calculate every potential legal move in response to your move it is chess with an asterisk. I like the idea of long games where players have the ability to think about potential moves and counters. I just dislike the idea that since you have all that time, to think about your move that it is ok to utilize a computer to aid your thought.
I would feel completely different if the "analyze" feature didn't show you if the move you're considering is legal, and allow you to quickly analyze all potential legal countermoves and outcomes inside of 30 seconds.
I have to agree, some people have a hard time keeping up with their calculations without setting up a seperate board and that's ok with me. I mean it's not like you are using a computer or getting outside help it is still your moves that are being played.Besides as hitorque said i am more concerned with improving my game