In other words, her achievements aren't amazing just because she's female; but because they're exceptional for anyone regardless of gender.
They're exceptional, sure, but compared to the best chess players her achievements aren't very good.
If she was male she would still be remembered
Remembered by who? For what?
The record for youngest GM has probably been broken 10 times since Judit. Can you name even one of these players? (The only one I know is Karjakin).
In the same time period as Judit there was a player named Michal Krasenkow who was briefly a top 10 player who had an aggressive style (like Judit) and who won many "best game" awards... but I've never heard of him. I assume 99% of tournament players haven't heard of him either. Meanwhile Judit is even known by non-players or casual players who have never even been to a tournament.
Judit polgar not only has the legacy as the greatest female chess player of all time but also as a staple elite player. She broke Fischer's record as the youngest grandmaster ever which Fischer held for over 30 years. She also holds the record as the youngest ever player to get into the top 100 and she boasts a positive score against some elite players. Most notably Alexey Shirov, Gata Kamsky, Valery Salov, Alexander Grischuk, Nigel short and more.
In other words, her achievements aren't amazing just because she's female; but because they're exceptional for anyone regardless of gender. If she was male she would still be remembered (although admittedly not as much) for the aforementioned things.
This got me thinking, has any other female in a sport or competitive activity where women can compete with men competed at the elite level like polgar? There have been many great achievements by women in sport against men (Fallon Sherrock immediately comes to mind); but I can't think of anyone who has been an elite player.
My other thought is that why doesn't Judit get more public recognition? Surely her story could inspire women and girls to not only try and compete with men in sports where female-male competition is allowed/fair to not just become a good player but a member of the elite, a tournament winner and possibly even world champion.
TL;DR Judit has achieved alot in chess. Why doesn't she get more public recognition and have any other women competed at the elite of a sport that I haven't heard of?