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Amruth070796

I'm such a f***ing loser i just don't know why but i keep losing ...from chess matches to everything else in m life..it's reaaally crazy whenever i lose a game i feel everything's gone..

Kraynight

Cheer up, you could live in Scotland.

Amruth070796

what do u mean that I could live in scotland

lutak22

I know this feeling, you'll get a win streak soon enough

Amruth070796

thanks lutak but I'm not really sure about it

bobbyDK

you should never say that about yourself.

say it inifity times till you believe it yourself.

"I am a winner and I can accomplish everything."

after saying till you believe it and you will finaly know that I(me) can accomplish everything :-)

kleelof

Your attitude is more of a loser than your chess playing.

Perhaps that's where you should begin looking for a solution.

Tal1949

Anand, is that you? 

Amruth070796

what do u mean Tal ....

Amruth070796

thanks bobby

kleelof
Amruthdan wrote:

thanks bobby

Really? His answer was horrible.

That kind of crap only works in Karate Kid movies, not in real life.

TMHgn

Losing is part of the game. Don't take it too personal.

Try learning from your mistakes. And try not to repeat the same mistakes over and over, but try making new mistakes. In chess there are infinite chances to get it wrong. It is just the complicated nature of the game. So take somewhat of a light approach about it. Otherwise you will just hate it more and more and lose enjoyment. It is only a game after all.

cornbeefhashvili

It works on cars. Makes them really shiny, too!

Debistro

This forum is great for people to moan, and bitch, and to go awwww.....so sorry that you lost. And then pat each other on the back. Pick yourself up dude.....

Amruth070796
Debistro wrote:

This forum is great for people to moan, and bitch, and to go awwww.....so sorry that you lost. And then pat each other on the back. Pick yourself up dude.....

Thanks Debistro

lutak22
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bobbyDK
kleelof skrev:
Amruthdan wrote:

thanks bobby

Really? His answer was horrible.

That kind of crap only works in Karate Kid movies, not in real life.

to a certain degree you are right.

but a person who is on top on things doesn't go around and thinking he is a loser all the time. So it is all about focusing on the right things.

all negative thoughts doesn't help you. So it is all about reprogramming your self image.

2000mushroom

guess I'm not the only one with a losing streak...

Cynicalism

Haha I know the feeling man. I lost like 3 games today I should've had because of one simple stupid mistake.

nkzfr

It's never a loss it's always a lesson. Review your games from the archive. And don't feel down we all have loosing streaks from time to time. Be determined and keep going. Don't resign just because you lose some of the pieces you're more comfortable with.