Cheer up, you could live in Scotland.
loser

you should never say that about yourself.
say it inifity times till you believe it yourself.
"I am a winner and I can accomplish everything."
after saying till you believe it and you will finaly know that I(me) can accomplish everything :-)

Your attitude is more of a loser than your chess playing.
Perhaps that's where you should begin looking for a solution.

thanks bobby
Really? His answer was horrible.
That kind of crap only works in Karate Kid movies, not in real life.

Losing is part of the game. Don't take it too personal.
Try learning from your mistakes. And try not to repeat the same mistakes over and over, but try making new mistakes. In chess there are infinite chances to get it wrong. It is just the complicated nature of the game. So take somewhat of a light approach about it. Otherwise you will just hate it more and more and lose enjoyment. It is only a game after all.

This forum is great for people to moan, and bitch, and to go awwww.....so sorry that you lost. And then pat each other on the back. Pick yourself up dude.....

This forum is great for people to moan, and bitch, and to go awwww.....so sorry that you lost. And then pat each other on the back. Pick yourself up dude.....
Thanks Debistro

thanks bobby
Really? His answer was horrible.
That kind of crap only works in Karate Kid movies, not in real life.
to a certain degree you are right.
but a person who is on top on things doesn't go around and thinking he is a loser all the time. So it is all about focusing on the right things.
all negative thoughts doesn't help you. So it is all about reprogramming your self image.
I'm such a f***ing loser i just don't know why but i keep losing ...from chess matches to everything else in m life..it's reaaally crazy whenever i lose a game i feel everything's gone..