I think you are lying. Or your Mom lets you win. You are seriously the worst opponent I have ever played and I have been playing for 40 years.
You play to many games. You take to long to move. Chess is a serious game to most of us. Not a Sims game where the opponents are computer generated AI units.
Play your games then waste time blogging and posting.
when my mom first played chess against me i kept winning in four move for like the first ten games. then she learned how to stop it then i kept winning in 5 moves now she can play a intiar game vs me.