I see no point in buying Rybka 4.
You either want to have the very best, in which case you will want to get Houdini 3.
Or you want to get the best deal, in which case you will want to get Critter and/or Stockfish as they are free and stronger than Rybka 4 at the same time.
Your main interest seems to lie in a feature of Aquarium (Or at least that IDeA-thing sounds like it is a feature of the GUI, not the engine). I don't know if you can get it without engine. If you can only get it with an engine, and the Rybka-version is significantly cheaper, than that would be the only imaginable reason to get this one instead.
I want to buy either rybka 4 aquarium or houdini 3 aquarium.
Which one should I buy?
I am leaning towards Rybka 4 because I have used Rybka 3 aquarium in the past(which I no longer have), and I liked the 'flavor' of its analysis.
but i have not yet seen houdini 3.
Also, I am mainly interested in its IDeA feature(Interactive Deep Analysis), whereby you can guide the analysis towards certain lines and the moves are visible in a tree form. Has anyone used this feature and is it all that it is hyped up to be.