You can't at the moment. But personally I don't find the default theme aggressive. You sure your not using the marble sound theme?
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The sound themes for the movements of the pieces are very strange. Could you add new sound themes that don't sound as aggressive as the default theme? In addition, the other sound themes are rather non-serious for a game of chess.