Study Partner
Of course a coach would be beneficial, but they cost $$$
and i want to practice my slow time controls.

I would agree and say from experience that longer games are even more beneficial when played live OTB.
However, there are numerous groups here dedicated to longer games too. So you can get quality games here as well.
I'd be available for you as an occasional partner, but I'm probably too weak for you. But if you ever want to give us a try, drop me a PM. :-)
Thank you for your input David but I do all that already! A study partner is what I want, hence this thread.