What is your goal?
a) A higher rating?
b) Getting better in tactics, calculation and visualization?
For (a) - you can boost your rating higher than you "deserve" by guessing promising feeling moves without calculating them to the end. Failing quick is better than slow.
For (b) - calculate the tactics to the end, regardless of how long it takes. Move only when you are sure it is right and works. Let the rating end up where it ends up.
And as a bonus, doing (b) for extended amount of time (months) your rating will go up as well! Because your ability to calcualte and recongize patterns gets better.
my question is this.how am I learning anything from tactics training if taking the time to figure it out causes me to lose points? so I'm a slow thinker isn't getting it right the whole idea of training?