Akobian was looking for an excuse not to play So and easy way out,
No. Story was Akobian was distressed and didn't want ref to forfeit game. He just wanted to stop the note taking. Akobian began to offer the ref a coupon good for two nights lodging at a nearby hot springs if he'd back off on how harshly to sanction So but as he began to offer the coupons he realized he was getting the stinkeye from the official so pretended he was digging in his pockets for his chapstick and just happened to haul out the coupons. Also, someone said when So picked up on the fact Akobian was about to offer a bribe he gave him a fierce head shake when the officials attention was distracted for a moment. So manned up and he wouldn't approve of people being so hard on Akobian, after all he said, "I know the rules I just didn't think these pussies would enforce it."
+Silentknighte5, cheating is a harsh word for So's forfeit. I think the rule about taking note was and is unclear to him.
"In a report on chess.com, Chief Arbiter Tony Rich said that So was writing encouraging sentences in a paper underneath his score sheet. So's opponent, GM Varuzhan Akobian, complained that the act distracted him."
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Here's another quote from Garry Kasparov:
"It is always fighting chess, something which I am sure everyone enjoys. It seems to me that Hikaru is winning, which is as expected.
Though I am afraid that the championship might be remembered for a very sad accident in the 9th round, but hopefully it will not overshadow a great event.
I don't want to judge the decisions made by Tony Rich becauser I understand they followed the rules. But the very fact that a bunch of idiots in FIDE created such rules tells you everything about that organisation.
I thought that, for instance, I could have been disqualified in every game, because I used to take notes of my time for each move. I think many players of my generation did it. I think it's quite amazing that now chessplayers should learn more about the rules, that are changed against them, than about opening preparation, because you can be disqualified by some stupid rule, invented by a bunch of senile idiots."