If the opponent does it, it's a stupid blunder.
If I do it, it's a well-intentioned decision that turned out, in retrospect, to be unfortunate.
ah got it so me hanging my queen against someone 400 points lower than me and still winning was a calculated sacrifice that was a bit unsound. A mistake, to be sure, but not a blunder.
If the opponent does it, it's a stupid blunder.
If I do it, it's a well-intentioned decision that turned out, in retrospect, to be unfortunate.