I guess I'll step in and give you the usual advice:
- You should only be defending if you're on the verge of a loss
- Beginners don't have a style
- Focus on opening ideas rather than specific opening lines
- Tactics, tactics, tactics, tactics and more tactics!
- Study master games
In other sports and games, I've tended (not always, but usually I think) to have more of a defensive mindset and game style.
I'm still new to chess and wondering which great players or style/openings have this characterization about them that I can maybe go and look-up and learn from.
TVM in advance everyone!