Why no rematch? What am I missing?

So I have noticed that very very few people will do a rematch on this site.
If I win, I get rematch requests often.  And I always accept.

After all, we learn more about ourselves and our game if we play more than once with a given person.
But if I lose (especially if it was a close game), I hardly ever am granted a rematch.
Any idea why the culture here is like that?  Am I missing something?  Does it have something to do with points or rating?  
I could care less about my rating.  I want to become better.  Straight up.  
I dunno... it's just not very fun.  Thinking about canceling my subscription.
Kinda. alot of rude people here too.
What are your thoughts?

#1
Nobody ows you a rematch.
Maybe the opponent
wants to eat or drink something or visit the toilet...
wants to analyse the game while the imprint is still fresh,
is concerned about a possible engine assisted revenge.

once your higher, i don't think its the rematch you have to worry about but finding a pairing

Try adding a player as a friend. They might be more interested in a rematch when it's more convenient for them.

That would be fine, as long as it was just an optional setting.

Last sentence.

Happened to me a few times before a friend explained to me what was happening.

No more rematches for me.

I don’t often get rematch requests, and when I do, I don’t notice a difference between whether I won or lost.

I decline almost all of them, just because I don’t want to play them again. No particular reason needed.

The only time when I would rematch someone is in a friendly game over the board.

Because your bruised ego isn't my responsibility.

Ye true but nothing to do with his question

Nobody owes anyone a rematch. It's courteous to offer one, maybe, but I'm only going to offer one if I actually enjoyed the game, win or lose, and if I feel that there's more interesting stuff coming.

I'll never rematch after a game I can't find anything memorable about.

I only rematch if I feel like the oponnent played an interesting game. I'd never rematch say, a London player

I almost never rematch. I like to go straight to Game Review and analyze the game while it's still fresh.

beggars can't be choosers

I like that suggestion. Seems easy to implement, Even better would be adding heads-up match in live play so you could select elo ranges, time, etc plus number of games to play

Lmao