winners n losers

Its easy to imagine the moves that you will play against an opponent if that player can simply play the moves you anticipate in the game!! wins could come as easy as playing you first pet move, say 1. e4, 1. d4, 1. Nf3 etc....

When, however, we face a player that decides to play the move u fail to c its influence on the board like a Knight safely posted on the sixth rank, sooner or later we may come to wonder when the rain started beating down on as, as the pins, forks, zugzwangs, over burdens, combinations, piece loss, checks n check mates becomes clear, foreseen or threatened!!

it becomes clear to me that its possible that the game u believe is drawn maybe a win, loss or actually drawn and vis versa!!! we loss some we win some!!

where is the difference between the guy that resigned n the guy with the reigning monarch???