"You're arguing what's good for women. And to argue what's good for women, without actually consulting women, without actually exploring the female experience, is practically the definition of patriachy."
I think it's ok to argue what you think is good for women, as long as you respect the opinions of those who disagree. Even if I argue about something about women, I will qualify it by saying "this is only my perspective" -- any man or woman may agree with it or reject it. We feel certain ways about certain things, and we express them -- it's up to the readers to decide whether they empathize with them or not.
By the way, it's good to have checks, both ways -- to have half of people who can vote men, and half women. That way men can't team up and grab all of the power, and women can't do so either. If only women could decide on what they could have, what if they decided to be selfish and demanded greater rights than men because that was "best for them?" Same goes for men. Instead we take the average of all opinions.
"People here are arguing that women should be insulted - but if you ask women, for the most part, we're not. We see it differently. And isn't it presumptuous to claim that you know better than us what's best for us?"
Someone could make the case that you should be insulted, but that's their opinion -- they're not asking you to agree with it -- only to do so if you are convinced of the argument.
Goes for any argument. Arguments try to persuade; it doesn't mean that if a person is not persuaded the arguer will necessarily resent them or be disrespectful of the disagreement.
I won't state which side I am on regarding the OP, but I respect any woman's opinion, whether she thinks it's insulting or not (and thus, whether or not she agrees with me).
@drCheck
The title of women's grandmaster and grandmaster are different titles. A woman attaining the WGM title has no impact on her ablity to get a GM title. What does the fact that a WGM title is easier to get than a GM title say? Seriously - it says that there are fewer women who are strong at chess, and we want to remedy that situation.
Nobody - aside from you, I guess - seems to think that the WGM and GM titles are equivalent. If attaining the WGM title made you ineligible for the GM title, I could see how that woul be a problem. But it doesn't. So what's the problem?
Where did I say that WGM and GM titles are equivalent? You're just talking bologna now. I clearly stated that the Woman Grandmaster title is lower than the Grandmaster title.
The problem is that if a woman can really be a GM, she should be a GM. The mere presence of a WGM title implies that women need their own "McGrandmaster" title in order to feel special. Why is a Woman Grandmaster title lower than a Grandmaster title? If a woman is a grandmaster, she should be a grandmaster. If a man is a grandmaster, he will be a grandmaster.
To "remedy the situation" by creating separate titles for men and women doesn't make sense. It only creates a separation, an idea that men and women are different in the chess world and don't belong on the same level. So if you believe women and men can be equally strong chess colleagues, there is no reason to have a separate title for each gender.