Fair Play Policy violation warning message

Hi, my problem is i get this message :

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Your account may be restricted if you do not follow our Fair Play Policy. 

If restricted, you will only be able to play with friends. 

Please do not intentionally abort/disconnect from games or make your opponents wait unnecessarily.

Thank you for keeping Chess.com a fun place to enjoy chess!

OK

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...quite often. I do not abort games, but my games are often aborted by server, or opponent (i think so, because message text is "game is aborted"), i resigned a game only once.

I think a lot of time - can it be the reason of warning appearance?

Thanks.

Probably bad connection and desync. Don't worry too much, these are automatic messages. Worse case, you'll have a word with the mods (who are quite comprehensive).

(sorry I could not resist)

A Fair Play Violation is considered just cheating.

Maybe Its A Mistake?

Maybe just don't spend so much time on the first move or something, other than that I think this is just a glitch.

You may want to be proactive and speak to someone like a moderator, just to cover your tail.  Get it on record what you have said here.  I would bet this is a fairly common issue due to internet availability and quality.  It sounds like an automated warning. 

yea...