Friend Requests

Hello!

I wanted to add a friend into my friends list, but whenever I sent a freind request, I got this message instead:

"Oops?! We noticed the following errors in your form:
You can only have 20 pending friend requests at a time! Make sure you provide enough info in your friend request for them to know who you are."

Can anyone tell me how to get rid of all my other pending friend requests?

@Rainbow: Umm, I admit I used to be that kind of guy, but not anymore. I have some RL friends I wanted to add for real.

@Chess Boy: Thanks for the help. I don't necessarily remember because it was so long ago since I added someone (September, maybe October of 2009) and so many games had transpired since then. It would be nice if this site had a panel that displayed all my pending requests.

MY HOME -> Friends.

Under My friend requests, there are separate lists: To Me & From Me.

The ones to you, you can accept or decline. The ones from you, you can cancel.

Thanks SO much! I had so many alerts that those options were pushed down to the very bottom of the page. Case closed.

how bizarre.

 chess com

Hello 

i checked it out with other players they have same problem

any way we have no indication  when  a name is added bye the way  i did erase some names 1 hour ago and now i returned looks like there are some-more added

ok ok you will say we need to read all the rules and posts talking about every thing on this site sorry about that  me and all 20 friends i have been wasting time playing instead of reading all the rules more i got the accept or decline in messages had no idea it appears elseware if u know please help all of us simple players

I have a problem, ive invited like 100 friends randomly on live chess like last year, and so i cant be bothered to spend 1 hour deleting them all. I'm screwed arnt I? 

(btw google pwns for refering me here xD)

Two clicks to cancel each request: seems a small price to pay for loss of friendship.

chess.com itself implodes after 1,024 Friend Requests have been deleted without acceptance or declination (probably).

Every number (with one exception) is pluralous.

and art gives off a certain fizz of trolls.

Brilliant.

Arn't I? xD (unique troller here)

i have the sameeeeeeee problem

 u can check me with a machine i am not lying

i did not ask so many people to be friends

its a bug in the system

I had to limit the friend requests because of having to deleting one by one if they didnt respond. So I only ask people I play live who don't make negative remarks from the USA, England & Canada. Otherwise its to many and its a pain to delete all those folks from India , France , etc that I use to ask. Oh well, 

Now the other thing is even though I have a long list of "friends" I rarely send them a pm or play them more than a few times. And I dont ever see any of them posting messages. 

i cant get any friend requests, even when by best friends want to add me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SOOOOOOO anoyying ugh!!!!!!!!