Go to his home page. Look at his avatar. If it has a little green square box in it; he's on-line. If the box isn't there; he's not on-line.
How can I tell if a "friend" is online?

You will both need to go into Live chess at the same time. Check out this article for more details. :)
http://www.chess.com/forum/view/livechess/how-to-master-the-ins-and-outs-of-live-chess

You will both need to go into Live chess at the same time. Check out this article for more details. :)
http://www.chess.com/forum/view/livechess/how-to-master-the-ins-and-outs-of-live-chess

Now THAT'S funny. 200 bonus points for Calamondin! 2 messages because you will BOTH need to go online
I want to play a person who has friended me here.
How can I tell when he is online?
Also, how do I then challenge him to a live game?