HOW DO WE STOP THE STALLING

chesscom punishes these players by putting them into a pool of players that also stalls and aborts a lot, this makes their matchmaking take longer and of course they are playing with players who stall and abort too.

Definitely needs stronger penalties - automatically triple the points lost, etc for a stalled/quit game - something that'll make them really consider if it's worth it.

I wouldn't mind if they put a limit on the time between moves. Let's say 60 seconds and then the player must do something to show they are still there.

Agreed, the game is unplayable, opponent loses a piece, quits, every time. How am I supposed to get better if I can finish a game. I play all the way through, I should not be in this pool. Are there other chess sites that lock someone into their game? Or have people that actually care about their ratings? I think this is the issue, some are just messing around and some are playing to get better, these should be two groups of players.