It means you have 45 minutes on your clock and you get 45 seconds added after each move. Since discussion of cheating is generally not allowed on the forums, I can't answer the second question, sorry.
What is 45|45 or 60|60 chess?

It lets you cheat because of the extra time. It's technically impossible to lose! (unless you get checkmated, or you resign
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What is 45|45 or 60|60 chess?
If it's an increase in time/move limits does it bring more chances for cheating?